Whether you're preparing for marriage, working through a rough patch, or figuring out what's next, we're here to help. We're Bill and Sandra. Thirty years of marriage and years of walking alongside others have taught us a thing or two. We'll listen, share what we've learned, and help you take meaningful steps toward the future you want to build.
“Catch all the foxes, those little foxes, before they ruin the vineyard of love…” — Song of Solomon
The small challenges of today often become the big problems of tomorrow. We call them little foxes. Catching foxes is what we do. Whether you're preparing for marriage, navigating a difficult season, or figuring out what's next, little foxes have a way of showing up along the way.
Available across the table in and around Chicago, or from the comfort of your couch via video call nationwide.
You don’t have to be in trouble to invest in your future marriage. Build on what’s already good, understand each other more deeply, and create habits to carry into everyday life. As Certified SYMBIS Facilitators, we’ll walk beside you as you prepare.
It's never too late to build the marriage you want. For over a decade we've helped couples name their biggest issues, learn to communicate well, and rediscover their spark.
What's next? Maybe you're navigating a big change, chasing a new goal, or just feeling like it's time for something different. Let's take an honest look at where you are, where you want to go, and what's standing in the way.
Some couples meet us in the middle of a hard season. Others meet us on the happiest day of their lives. We’re glad for both.
Whether you're planning a wedding, renewing your vows, or celebrating an important milestone, we'd love to be part of it. As an experienced officiant and ordained pastor, we help couples create personal, meaningful ceremonies that reflect who they are and what they're celebrating.
We love sharing what we've learned about marriage, relationships, and life. Through honest stories, practical wisdom, and a little humor, we help people connect, learn, and grow together. We'd love to be part of your next event.
Leaving people better and happier than we found them. Here it is in their own words.
“We felt supported by Bill and Sandra the moment we began. They truly have a gift for helping people where they are and navigating them to a better future as a couple. My wife and I still use the tools they equipped us with in counseling. Bill and Sandra live what they teach and we can't thank them enough for their love and support for our marriage!”
Drew + Melissa
“Sometimes you find yourself stuck in the mud and instead of fighting your way out, you settle for 'being stuck' as a new way of life. For us, it was our rock bottom. Bill and Sandra helped us see we were stuck and they sat with us patiently until we realized we needed to get out. When we were ready, they were there to walk us out of our mess.”
Eli + Tanya
“Asking yourself, 'Are you sure this is the right decision?' after you're already engaged must seem like the world's worst idea. But this was the best question my fiancé and I asked about our impending marriage. In our sessions we unpacked tough questions, past mistakes, future goals, and our faith in God. We pushed the envelope. We laughed. We cried. And if we hadn't, I couldn't say with the confidence I have now, 'Yes, this is right!'”
Jared + Amanda
Here’s something we discovered in thirty years of marriage: no one gets it right all the time. We all occasionally need help with our relationships — and asking for it is a sign of strength, not failure.
When we were at our worst, someone reached out and helped us through. That’s why we’re passionate about helping others. We’re the product of positive marriage mentoring.
Let's be honest. Most of us grew up in a culture where asking for help — especially with mental health or relationship struggles — was never discussed, or outright frowned upon. So it’s understandable to feel unsure about where to begin.
Seeking help can be intimidating. We’re here to answer every question and point you in the right direction. And even if we’re not the right fit, we’ll do our best to help you find someone who is.
How we meet: In-person over coffee across the greater Chicago area, or face-to-face via Zoom for couples anywhere nationwide.
Prefer an informal chat first? We regularly meet couples for a free 30-minute introductory conversation to answer questions with zero commitment.